A women

A plight of women:

I am a women, I have left everything for my husband, I have made a big sacrifice for the husband by compromising of so called great career ( we all know what career ). I am staying in his house and have only one room of my own. I have left my parents, my brothers only for my husband. Only thrice a week I visit them, only thrice a day I call them no matter wherever they stay. Only five times a week I force my husband to visit my house. My husband should call my mom as mummyji and father as daddy that’s the respect you know. I can call my husband’s mom and dad as my mother in law and father in law (I respect them a lot – give them tea always In the morning what else they want ?) Once I kept fast for him. Entire day I did not eat anything. I drank only orange, coconut juice five cups. And night at seven o clock I ate food only three rotis and dal chawal ( no nonveg ! ) but then to m not valued.

I don’t understand why my husband is always in tension whenever he is out with his friends. I have told him you should be at house around 9 pm. I don’t like this you know ! My brothers are soo sweet and good they are well educated and cultured. My brothers have got admission in merit we have not taken any benefit of reserved class. They are so caring – my one brother stays in usa and one brother stays in south Mumbai away from my parents because they have to focus on their career. But they love my parents and always visit them once in a year. Till then I want my husband should take care of my parents. But my husband is not bothered he visits my parents only five times a week. He should learn from my bothers.

I love my husband very much. But he always comes around 9 o clock in night. So I have told him to eat the food kept in oven and sleep as I can’t wait till 9 o clock in night and serve him food. He shouts at me that I should wait till 9 o clock in night for him! Oh could you believe that’s so in human. I am suffering due to marriage. Now I go to shopping only twice In a week. My husband says the credit card limit is only 50000. Now you say he is not generous enough to increase the credit card limit.

What I want from my husband? He should take to me shopping at least five times a week, a movie twice a week , long drive five times a week, he should gift me new things at least a week, he should take leave from his work at least once in a week and visit my parents daily eat dinner with them. Tell me is this big demand? But my husband doesn’t understand all this and he always disobeys me. M such a understandable wife but now I don’t have any option. Whenever m free , he is busy with his meetings and work. I don’t understand why he is always busy, for him he takes me for outings only on weekends and rest days he is busy on his work.

What is my life? I have to get up at 9 0 clock. Prepare tea for everyone and serve them. I feel so tired, I have to take bath, eat breakfast, watch tv, go shopping, I get tired ! but nobody is bothered about that! And at night my husband is asking to wait for food for him ? That’s not rite at all. That day I only told him lets go for outing. I told him lets go to UK for holiday with my parents. He told me wait for few days as he is not getting leave. Now you only say for me he is not having time? That’s so bad and insulting.

I have decided to leave him and will give him divorce. I am an independent girl and I know what to do about this situation. I am not going to allow male dominate on me. I am going to fight for women independence and right. I am going to show the world that women are now equal with men. They can do everything what a man can do. Women can surf net, women can surf on twitter, facebook, orkut, linkedin, ( such a tough work ) women can drive car( automated gears) woman can lead a party , woman can direct and produce a movie. Woman can play cricket ( 45 overs ) woman can play tennis ( 3 sets ) woman can work in HR department ( the toughest department to work you have to work for one hour daily you know! ) women can take interview, women can operate laptop. What else you want. Woman is all over the place. There only few areas where you cant find women like construction, oil refineries, mining, coal, tractors, agriculture, manufacturing…

I have decided to leave my husband. M going to sue him. He has taken away my happiness. I will demand atleast 25 lacs from him and per month he should give me atleast 45 thousand for my survival. I belong to middle class family and this is my birth right to have this. I will teach my husband a lesson that he should respect a women. Lets celebrate women independence. All those who agree with me kindly support me. M so lonely only 9-10 friends are supporting me for this. M fighting for women cause so I am calling all those who are suffering and I know we will win.